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are you an vengeful and vindictive person?

  • yes

    Votes: 14 66.7%
  • no

    Votes: 7 33.3%

  • Total voters
    21
worldexploder

worldexploder

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Sep 19, 2018
2,823
It really depends on the situation I guess and how sorry these people really are. If someone fucks me over once it’s over - such as stealing from me or trying to manipulate. I don’t or shouldn’t put up with that shit.
 
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Voldmort

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Sep 23, 2018
287
I usually forgive people very easily but I never cease to suffer because of that, do you understand?
despite that, I am very vindictive and obsessed to trace the steps in detail how I will get revenge ... but as I forgive easy and I am lazy, I almost always do not go any further.
 
Jen Erik

Jen Erik

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Oct 12, 2018
637
I feel like I used to be, and the feelings of joy I'd get when the other person suffered for having wronged me, etc. were always very short-lived, and then I went back to feeling shitty about whatever happened.
 
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zzz919

I'm Nobody
Sep 19, 2018
96
I was beaten and tortured by a man beginning when I was 12 years old ...... I informed the Chickenshit Police the first time I was beaten ...... They did nothing ...... I never felt peace in my life until that child molester was dead ...... I felt some degree of satisfaction when I learned how to use the internet ...... I found the email addresses of almost every single school teacher in the community he lived in ...... I sent out a mass email campaign in his community ...... I informed every single school teacher ... business owner ... minister ... and several community leaders that a child molester lived in their community ...... He died about a year later ...... I never felt peace in my life until my attacker was dead ...... If the Chickenshit Police would have done their job ...... All of this could have been avoided ...... The Chickenshit Police will Not arrest wealthy child molesters in the United States ...... Truth ...... If you are beaten or molested by a wealthy person in the United States ...... You are on your own ...... You will suffer alone ...... Truth.
 
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zzz919

I'm Nobody
Sep 19, 2018
96
I would like to add something important to my original statement ...... Please do Not go around seeking revenge for every damn little thing ...... If someone says something that makes you angry ...... Or someone flips you the bird while you are driving ...... Just Move On ...... Do Not seek revenge for petty things ...... You will become insane if you seek revenge for everything ...... If everyone sought out revenge for everything ...... The world would become uninhabitable ...... If someone makes you angry ...... Just get in your car ...... Play Iron Maiden's "Number of the Beast" ...... Sing as loud as you can ...... Howl like a wolf ...... Get that anger out in a way that will not harm anyone ...... You can do it.
 
ctoan

ctoan

Arcanist
Sep 30, 2018
437
I would like to add something important to my original statement ...... Please do Not go around seeking revenge for every damn little thing ...... If someone says something that makes you angry ...... Or someone flips you the bird while you are driving ...... Just Move On ...... Do Not seek revenge for petty things ...... You will become insane if you seek revenge for everything ...... If everyone sought out revenge for everything ...... The world would become uninhabitable ...... If someone makes you angry ...... Just get in your car ...... Play Iron Maiden's "Number of the Beast" ...... Sing as loud as you can ...... Howl like a wolf ...... Get that anger out in a way that will not harm anyone ...... You can do it.


very wise word...

the art is to figure out what is still little and where you have to take action

ps im glad the fucker got what he deserved in the end
 
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BjartNO

Student
Sep 21, 2018
166
Yes, it does. Not because of karma or anything. But because life fucks everybody, good or bad.
I'm not convinced. Does it, really?
Of course you will rarely go through a lifetime without experiencing setbacks.
The sheer amount of setbacks will however vary enormously.
A stochastic process if I've ever seen one.
The concept of being fucked is not binary, there is a long, gliding scale of fuckedness.
 
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Schopenhauer

Enlightened
Oct 3, 2018
1,136
I'm not convinced. Does it, really?
Of course you will rarely go through a lifetime without experiencing setbacks.
The sheer amount of setbacks will however vary enormously.
A stochastic process if I've ever seen one.
The concept of being fucked is not binary, there is a long, gliding scale of fuckedness.

Yes, I agree 100%. Nevertheless everybody gets fucked, unless you die young. I'm not saying they will be fucked in a proportional amount or anything. Anyway, I don't think revenge is worth the effort.

BUT, I'm only talking about relatively minor stuff. If I'd been physically/sexually abused, then I'd probably want to exact revenge.
 
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BjartNO

Student
Sep 21, 2018
166
I will however, not be able to take comfort in the thought that anyone I might have ill will towards, will "get what they deserve".
Neither as a cosmic justice, nor as a rule that "life fucks us all".