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thetwilightzone

thetwilightzone

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Jul 14, 2018
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I was thinking of having one with a gay guy but there seem to be a lot of "timewasters". I have a sniggly feeling that it might be because I'm black. I heard that racism is a common thing among the bisexual community.
 
Dani Paradox

Dani Paradox

Permanently Banned
Aug 17, 2018
981
Yas. I most recently met an awesome girl at a club who followed me around all night, and we hooked up at the bar. Then we went back to her friends place and she said "let's take our clothes off!!!" That was a fun night.
 
Mr2005

Mr2005

Don't shoot the messenger, give me the gun
Sep 25, 2018
3,383
Most of them. I lost my virginity in about a four night stand but a decade on and we're together
 
BaconCheeseburger

BaconCheeseburger

Comfort-eating
Aug 4, 2018
689
When I was at uni I had several one night stands/casual sex. One of those casual encounters gave me herpes, which sucks and contributes to why I feel so unattractive and undateable. There's nothing wrong with casual sex, but I wish there was more discussion of sexual health and precautions for them
 
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Brokenanddeadinside

Brokenanddeadinside

Specialist
Aug 8, 2018
395
Yes I have a few times one after a concert met up with this girl who lived with her ex had sex in the shower. Once with a girl who was trying to get me over a sociopath that fucked with my head majorly and another time let a girl move in with me and we were fwb even though I wanted a relationship.
 
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BjartNO

Student
Sep 21, 2018
166
But if you're having a sex encounter something must have caused it
 
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SomeGuyDK

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Sep 17, 2018
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When I was at uni I had several one night stands/casual sex. One of those casual encounters gave me herpes, which sucks and contributes to why I feel so unattractive and undateable. There's nothing wrong with casual sex, but I wish there was more discussion of sexual health and precautions for them
I have herpes as well. Such a huge population has it. Well my symptoms are barely existent like the majority of people, but I guess yours appear often? Otherwise don't fret it, it is really nothing to be sad about.
 
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BaconCheeseburger

BaconCheeseburger

Comfort-eating
Aug 4, 2018
689
I have herpes as well. Such a huge population has it. Well my symptoms are barely existent like the majority of people, but I guess yours appear often? Otherwise don't fret it, it is really nothing to be sad about.
My symptoms are barely there either, but I still have to go through the trouble of disclosing to each potential partner so that they have more of a choice than I did when I wasn't told. Just the name alone horrifies people and it's like everything they liked about me dissolves.
 
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Dani Paradox

Dani Paradox

Permanently Banned
Aug 17, 2018
981
I could really use another before I ctb. But hey, at least I got the last one. That was a nice night.
 
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Sundayafternoon

Sundayafternoon

Cosmic panic
May 18, 2018
394
I was thinking of having one with a gay guy but there seem to be a lot of "timewasters". I have a sniggly feeling that it might be because I'm black. I heard that racism is a common thing among the bisexual community.

They've mostly always been casual. I have plenty of issues with building intimacy.

I don't know about racism amongst bisexuals. be careful good luck.
 
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SanguineHare

SanguineHare

Demon Bunny Queen
Dec 16, 2021
73
I've tried casual ecounters but it just left me feeling empty in past encounters as a whole. Stuff like that I feel like is much better with someone you actually care about.
 
motel rooms

motel rooms

So sodomitic.
Apr 13, 2021
5,946
sex without feelings is a waste of time

Everybody's probably heard this one:

"Sex without love is a meaningless experience, but, as far as meaningless experiences go, it's pretty damn good."
-- Woody Allen

Yes, I've had hundreds of casual sex encounters. I'm hypersexual. It kills me, it keeps me alive.