- Nov 21, 2018
Yoooooooooo!snowman626 said:basically im a walking failure. 34yr old, virgin, never had a gf, been a neet for a year, near hikikomori for most my life so zero social skills, never went to college, no money, living with parents, and cannot carry a conversation.
also i have nothing to offer as far as physical looks go. i am only 5'5'', i have small bones and my hands and arms are the same size or smaller as a girl my age, small penis (4''), and already balding at about a norwood 4. as far as my face its okay i guess, its the only part of me that isn't that sub par.
but suppose i want to try and get a girlfriend, the only possible way i can think of is to make things up and pretend i have money, i have a job, i have had girlfriends before, etc. if successful i could start dating a girl who thinks im normal. as far as social skills and carrying a conversation i think i can fake that too for a little while if i rehearse some stuff.
let me know what you think in the polls
Dude like take a risk man and get a loan or something to get out of your parents place.
Go to a place with a lot of trade jobs or even factory, move out of the state if you have to. Live minimalist until you have a certified stream of a livable income.
Go to the gym, get a trainer and NEVER STOP GOING! Seriously even if you lift some for a few minutes and get tired it's okay to leave to get some rest so long as you don't quit going. Do this on repeat while challenging yourself and you'll notice results off the back. This is to build true confidence and from that confidence can you theoretically feel like conquering the whole dawn world.
Dude I want you to succeed and become the most beautiful bastard you can carve yourself into.
Girlfriends are secondary to getting questioned by life and answering with your life.
Nobody can make risks for you and only you can realize the full uniquely human potential that lies in you!
You can do this bro!