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Gray Wounds

Gray Wounds

A Phantasmagoria
Jun 27, 2018
513
i do not know what the exact scenario is between you and your mom at that moment so I advise you not to be rash on your decision. And just an additional question, where are you from? you seem to be not a native english speaker and your name quite suggests to me that perhaps our point of origin is the same.
 
Tiburcio

Tiburcio

Voluntary deletion.
May 9, 2018
1,573
That's the main reason I hate parents. They make us and they don't know even why, maybe because society puts this idea in our head since we are really young or because the "maternal instinct" excuse. Parents suffered a lot since their childhood and now forced us to suffer their same fate, even having experienced how fucked life is. Sorry but this is not love. If you love your son, you don't have it. Having a child usually drives to regrets when they grow, like with me. Sorry you had to hear this. Your mother is a hellcat. And mine too. And every fucking mother and father in the world. I hate all them deeply.
 
nonexistance

nonexistance

Member
Jun 16, 2018
40
That's the main reason I hate parents. They make us and they don't know even why, maybe because society puts this idea in our head since we are really young or because the "maternal instinct" excuse. Parents suffered a lot since their childhood and now forced us to suffer their same fate, even having experienced how fucked life is. Sorry but this is not love. If you love your son, you don't have it. Having a child usually drives to regrets when they grow, like with me. Sorry you had to hear this. Your mother is a hellcat. And mine too. And every fucking mother and father in the world. I hate all them deeply.
I 100% agree!
 
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ScaredOfLife

Arcanist
Jul 9, 2018
441
That's the main reason I hate parents. They make us and they don't know even why, maybe because society puts this idea in our head since we are really young or because the "maternal instinct" excuse. Parents suffered a lot since their childhood and now forced us to suffer their same fate, even having experienced how fucked life is. Sorry but this is not love. If you love your son, you don't have it. Having a child usually drives to regrets when they grow, like with me. Sorry you had to hear this. Your mother is a hellcat. And mine too. And every fucking mother and father in the world. I hate all them deeply.

This is exactly why I chose to never have kids. I'm 40 years old and have suffered most of my life. I can't bring a child into this world of suffering.
 
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typx

Specialist
May 4, 2018
381
This is exactly why I chose to never have kids. I'm 40 years old and have suffered most of my life. I can't bring a child into this world of suffering.

I appreciate this. Most parents just use their kids. They are there to fill a void. A child is not a solution to a problem. It isn’t going to save you. And it’s not going to guide you. You’re the adult. Act like it!
 
Tiburcio

Tiburcio

Voluntary deletion.
May 9, 2018
1,573
This is exactly why I chose to never have kids. I'm 40 years old and have suffered most of my life. I can't bring a child into this world of suffering.
Trust me. A child only brings problems. If you are depressed deal with your son will be harmful for both. I'm talking as someone which parents were depressed and they thought having a baby will bring them happiness. The result was calamitous, specially for me, who must endure the selfish decisions of my parents, making my life hellish.

You have insight enough to know a child isn't a solution. Thank you for not having it, really.
 
Mizule

Mizule

Member
Jul 22, 2018
21
A parent should not say such things to their child.Really,no one should wish death on anyone.
 
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