Nobody is coming to save you!

[Ethereal Knight]

I know there's some "tough love" in the #short video below, but I think it can be very helpful, check it:



If one wants recovery, I guess one has to work hard... and dig their way out.

Please tell us if you found that video helpful, put your thoughts below:

 

[Mixolydian]

Wow, this really hit different. But it's necessary to internalize, for better or worse.

 

[Julgran]

I know there's some "tough love" in the #short video below, but I think it can be very helpful, check it:



If one wants recovery, I guess one has to work hard... and dig their way out.

There's truth to this statement - it's not callous, because it just describes how reality works.

However, some of us simply don't wish to be saved any longer.

 

[NoLifeNoPain]

I'm trying to dig my way out but my shovel is a piece of shit

 

[Lost Magic]

My response to this is. I don't give a fuck about being saved. I'm past being saved. Save yourself.

 

[WhatPowerIs]

But wouldn't it be nice to receive some help once in awhile?

 

[Numb]

I found it helpful.

Something internal has to be the engine of change if you are to get better. It can feel a bit disheartening when you feel like you lack the grit to bring about such change though.

 

[Grav]

I find it accurate.

But wouldn't it be nice to receive some help once in awhile?

I think you can get help but ultimately if someone isn't getting themselves going the help won't work. Not saying "getting yourself out of it" is always some arduous task,, and yes, more help can make it easier.

 

[przeciwwymiotne]

I know there's some "tough love" in the #short video below, but I think it can be very helpful, check it:



If one wants recovery, I guess one has to work hard... and dig their way out.

Please tell us if you found that video helpful, put your thoughts below:

I'm not able to dig my way out, I'm too lazy and spoiled I have no willpower to change. There's only one way to avoid slowly decaying in my body and in my horrible life. I'm so scared. I wish someone could help me ctb

 

[WhatPowerIs]

I find it accurate.


I think you can get help but ultimately if someone isn't getting themselves going the help won't work. Not saying "getting yourself out of it" is always some arduous task,, and yes, more help can make it easier.

It's true and I agree! I've just been in a stump lately.

 

[Shu]

I didn't watch the video but yeah we have to save ourselves.

 

[ejpikl]

i mean i already knew but yeah i'm glad it's that way
the idea of someone fixing me and me actually getting better is disgusting

 

[Coffeebean77]

I don’t expect to be saved…. I don’t even believe I can be helped anymore.

 

[Sky66]

Didn't watch it. It's not rocket science. When I was a healthy person I always told people that the only one who could help you is yourself. At some point of your life nobody can help you including yourself.

 

[want2dienow]

I want to die

 

[GenesAndEnvironment]

If I somehow get into a position where it's possible, I'll be saving people left and right. "No one is coming" = "I'm not going to help you, I prioritize money/casual sex/etc over ending human suffering (since I never truly experienced it)".

Btw, this isn't true for (most) women/neurotypical men (and/or normie-type autistic men), they can get saved by a man/woman in an intimate relationship (or even friendships, they almost always have those). Granted, this romance thing does seem to have fallen out of fashion in favor of "hookups", "polyamory", "open relationships", "neurotypicals with benefits", and other end-stage civilization type disgusting garbage.

Also, when someone says "I've been there", I assume they're incorrect until they show proof of: (a) Autism, (b) virginity at age 24+, (c) unemployability and (d) of living with parents at age 24+.

 

[PaperGodzilla]

It's a good start to think like this indeed. If you wait for someone to save you, it will just result in unhealthy/unbalanced relationship. We need to work on ourselves, but it does not mean that we have to do it alone. Seeking support is important

 

[wannawayout]

I’ll save myself from a lifetime of suffering by ctb. In my opinion, not having to exist in this cruel world is truly being saved.