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JaiLuLesCGU

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Jun 12, 2021
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I wish I knew how to deal with ugliness. I don't know how to cope but I noticed that the more ugly I feel the more I tend to hate people.
But most of the time I avoid leaving my home
 
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la fin de tout

Member
Jun 8, 2022
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I force myself to the gym every day, lately I torture myself eating lean foods and steamed vegetables, hoping maybe my physique will impact my face in some ways. I also tell myself unironically "just need to save up around $5000 for liposuction and plastic surgery."
 
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I pray everyday that I never wake up. I really do.
Apr 6, 2021
299
I don't. I let the false hope rise if it ever does (scarce). What I DO do is prevent myself from ever being interested in another person. Because I'm disconnected from ever loving a person (and because I know damn well that I'll never attract a person), I never have to remind myself I'm ugly. I'm alone. I'm alone because I'm hideous. So a constant reminder doesn't matter. It's better to get used to loneliness than it is to get entangled with someone else's shit.. Eventually, one day, they'll hurt me. I can't deal with that anymore.
 
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picklemick

Experienced
Jun 28, 2022
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Now obviously some people are more physically attractive then others. But if that's all that's getting you down, you have a lot of control over your appearance and attractiveness. Being in shape, eating well, proper grooming, get a good haircut, pay attention to fashion. Wear things that fit well. Hell, take steroids if it will make you feel better about yourself.
 
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come to dust

Arcanist
Oct 28, 2019
403
Whenever I get a bit too cocky about my appearance I look at videos of myself to remind me how hideous I look in real live motion.
 
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veryhappyhuman

Specialist
Aug 25, 2021
342
Having been bullied for my looks since school and even occasionally by my parents, I guess it doesn't sting me much now. I don't take any pics of myself and have no social life so others dont either. But sometimes I happen to look at myself through a 3rd party view, like a cctv cam and that causes me to cringe sharply lol.

I also, as a cope, continue to wear a mask even when others in my area aren't. Helps hide the worst of my face and hence less anxiety when I go out.

I tried gymming for more than a year to at least gain a good frame and body but didn't gain shit. Crappy genetics all the way I guess.
 
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Julgran

Enlightened
Dec 15, 2021
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You look a bit like a young Kurt Russel. Is your real name Snake Plissken, perchance..? :smiling:

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WhatPowerIs

Arcanist
Jun 19, 2022
403
Does anyone have a way to cope with their appearance ? like, what do you say to yourself unironically ? how do you kill the false hope that sometimes arises ?
I have killed any thought of getting into a relationship with anybody because that sure as hell is never going to happen. This probably won't help you but it's helping me so far.