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stygal

stygal

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So I came across an article about asking your conversation partner engaging questions to get to know them better
... I know that something similar has already been done here but since there are thousands of different questions and topics I thought some of you would like to answer those ones:
  1. Which house would you belong to in Hogwarts? Alternative: What fictional group would you most likely fit in?
  2. What emotion do you experience the most?
  3. Who inspires you?
  4. If you were to open a bar, what would you name it?
  5. Would you rather be stuck in traffic for three hours each day, or never be able to eat out or get take-out again?
  6. If you were to go to jail, what would it be for?
  7. If you could choose to die right now, would you?
  8. Which one is harder to give up: coffee or alcohol?
  9. Have you ever shoplifted? If yes, what did you take?
  10. What are the three things you would bring with you to a deserted island?
  11. What is one childhood superstition or fear you've had/never told anyone?
  12. What (secret) obsession do you have?
  13. If you could do only one thing for the rest of your life, what would it be?
  14. What makes you feel loved?
  15. What do you lie most about?
  16. What's the silliest thing that you've ever gotten upset about?
  17. If you had to spend 10,000 bucks today, how would you spend it?
  18. What's your favorite music video?
  19. Who's your least favorite celebrity?
  20. If you could re-do one day in your life, what would it be and why?
 
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Right, questions... I don't have the nerve to publish my answers for now, but thanks for asking questions that I wouldn't think of asking myself. I feel like there is something of value to unravel here. Input-output machines are different, and some of them produce questions that others can't.
 
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stygal said:
So I came across an article about asking your conversation partner engaging questions to get to know them better
... I know that something similar has already been done here but since there are thousands of different questions and topics I thought some of you would like to answer those ones:
  1. Which house would you belong to in Hogwarts? Alternative: What fictional group would you most likely fit in?
  2. What emotion do you experience the most?
  3. Who inspires you?
  4. If you were to open a bar, what would you name it?
  5. Would you rather be stuck in traffic for three hours each day, or never be able to eat out or get take-out again?
  6. If you were to go to jail, what would it be for?
  7. If you could choose to die right now, would you?
  8. Which one is harder to give up: coffee or alcohol?
  9. Have you ever shoplifted? If yes, what did you take?
  10. What are the three things you would bring with you to a deserted island?
  11. What is one childhood superstition or fear you've had/never told anyone?
  12. What (secret) obsession do you have?
  13. If you could do only one thing for the rest of your life, what would it be?
  14. What makes you feel loved?
  15. What do you lie most about?
  16. What's the silliest thing that you've ever gotten upset about?
  17. If you had to spend 10,000 bucks today, how would you spend it?
  18. What's your favorite music video?
  19. Who's your least favorite celebrity?
  20. If you could re-do one day in your life, what would it be and why?
Great idea.

2. Neutral with a pinch of anxiety/tiredness.
5. Never eat food with spit and cum in it.
6. Corrupting the youth.
7. Yes. But only if the death is shotgun-level or better and my family thinks my heart just gave out or something.
8. Done both several times and both are easy for me, guess coffee can leave a slight headache in its absence.
9. No.
10. A double barreled shotgun and two shells.
14. No idea what that feels like, I still use the word love sometimes.
20. The day of my birth, would commit partial with the umbilical cord. :pfff:
 
Dr Iron Arc

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Sure, why not.

1. Ravenclaw. Everytime I’ve taken the test that’s what I get.
2. Boredom and self-loathing.
3. Lucina. In terms of real people? Most of the main people who used to inspire me are either dead or got canceled on the internet.
4. I’d love to open a bar for non alcoholic drinks like milk tea that people could also play games like Smash in. Maybe I’d call it Tea F. Tea-Eye or something corny like that.
5. Oh god both of those sound horrible but I guess I’d choose the traffic even though I really hate traffic I would definitely starve if I couldn’t eat out or get delivery.
6. Getting revenge on someone. That or negligent driving.
7. No. I still have notes to write and other preparations to make and entertainment I want to see.
8. Coffee. Easily. I’ve already mostly given up alcohol.
9. When I was like 4 and before I knew what shopping was even supposed to be like I stole gum and other candy until I saw on tv that that was stealing and it was bad.
10. Something that gives me internet, something that gives me electricity, and some means to make a shelter.
11. I have told people this before but I’m always wary of Wednesday. It always ends up being either really good or really bad for me so I’m scared of it’s unpredictability.
12. I used to watch the new My Little Pony show. I stopped around season 5 but eventually I do plan to catch up since it already ended. I was a fan of it since it came out ten years ago.
13. Binge tv shows/movies.
14. Don’t know. Usually complimenting me just makes me feel sick because I always feel like it is undeserved. Physical affection might work but only from the right person.
15. My masturbation habits/porn use. I tell all my friends I don’t partake at all because I feel uncomfortable being that open around them. I’m fine with telling about it when I’m mostly anonymous though.
16. Too many things. As an example, I once broke down crying and yelling because I realized how stupid I was for thinking Tanked and Shark Tank were the same show.
17. Gacha games and stocks.
18. 19. Lena Dunham, from what I heard about her at least. I’m sure there’s other celebrities I hate more but I can’t think of any rn.
20. The day I told one of coworkers that I just wanted to be friends. I thought it was the right thing to say but it turns out I should have just left it more open than that. It was September 19, 2015. I might also rather redo September 27, 2020 because that’s when I feel like I might have messed things up with the more recent girl I had a shot with.
 
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1. Hufflepuff, thought it was the lamest one when I was younger, and I desperately wanted to be a Ravenclaw or Gryffindor lol
2. Guilt, self-loathing, disgust
7. I would, but there are too many things I have to make sure my family doesn't find. Better get onto that
10. Books, water, and a gun I can shoot myself with
13. Sleep
 
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1ºSlytherin, in all the tests I got the same one, I suppose it is to put the "search for power" in the answers.
2ºNervousness
3ºI have no one, I admire many people but I don't think it will inspire me
4ºI think the name of a business of that style is very important and right now I can't think of anything but it would be something like "National Delights" and it would be a tapas bar with typical food from the country.
5ºAlthough I love fast food, I have spent too much time in traffic to want to spend 3 hours each day. That's more than 3 days spent in traffic jams every month
6ºRevenge
7ºAs long as I have the SN at hand I have no need for a spontaneous death, apart from that I am giving myself some time right now
8ºIn my case alcohol, I only enjoy radlers and an annual cocktail so I wouldn't mind drinking it 0%
9ºYes, I stole a couple of Chinese toys worth 3€ where I did karate when I was little. The master left and everyone threw themselves into the "prizes" trunk, I couldn't be the only one with being left with nothing :ahhha: .
10ºA machete, a modular house or modular container, salt water filter that works with solar energy
11º When I was little I ended up being afraid of Bambi's owl. From 4 to 6 years old I did not stop watching the movie (practically every 2 days). Until I ended up having nightmares for about 5 years where he always hung out. Once reached adolescence, he stopped appearing.
12ºMy only secret is the idea of ctb
13ºThat sounds like some kind of torture so as @kite says, I'll just sleep.
14ºCompliments or may my work be appreciated
15ºAbout how i feel.
16ºMany, right now I can't think of any but when I'm in a bad mood it's easy for me to jump over silly things
17ºI would buy a vehicle for that price and sell or return it the next day.
18ºThis one
19ºI do not like or know the world of the famous but from the last I heard, I stay with Amber Heard
20ºI can't think of any right now. I really enjoyed when I was little with friends to set up cabins in the mountains so I would probably choose that.
 
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1. Idk probably Ravenclaw
2. Melancholy
3. Nobody
4. Probably name it after myself
5. I already don't eat out so that one
6. Being with people that did something illegal lol
7. Not yet
8. I don't drink so I guess coffee
9. I don't remember but if I did it was probably some snacks
10. Idk I'll probably just die anyway lol
11. I'm scared of heights but everybody knows that
12. Maybe wanting to ctb
13. Sleep
14. N/A
15. I think I lie to myself and others about how much I like other people
16. Just the other day I got really upset because I thought somebody stole a package
17. i'd definitely get my teeth fixed
18. Clipse - Mr. Me Too
19. Don't have a least favorite
20. There's too many to answer
 
stygal

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I guess I‘ll have a go at it too :D
1. I‘ll always wanted to be Slytherin or Vulcan (Star Trek)
2. Indifference (sadly)
3. I don’t really get inspired by others, but whenever people stand up for themselves in civil rights movements for example, I am inspired by their strength
4. „Wunder“ oder „Wonder“ of course lol...but in general I don’t drink and don’t go to any
5. Never eat out since it’s not necessary for me and I hate traffic so much
6. Cheating? Idk, it’s the only mean thing I‘ve ever done.
7. Yeah, I‘m ready
8. Alcohol since I don’t drink at all
9. Yes, I took some sweets from a kiosk and I think I left on some underwear after trying it out in a store - so maybe I‘d go to jail for that
10. A Swiss Army knife, a water filter and my mattress
11. Still afraid of firecrackers since I always thought they could kill you if they explode close to you
12. Engery Drinks
13. Reading
14. Just getting attention from others and being told that I matter
15. My well-being
16. When I pronounced a word wrong and someone made fun of me - I couldn’t handle it and got upset for at least day lol
17. An Exoskeleton
18. Give it away - RHCP
19. Jens Spahn for not giving people the right to die in my country
20. A happy summer day I had in 2015/16 (?) so I could relive it again
 
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1. House Telvanni.
10. My spellbook, my fancy robe, and the secret ingredient for building my mushroom tower.
 
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20. The day Gail told me she loved me. I'd tell her I love her too, break up with my girlfriend, and marry that girl.
 
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stygal said:
So I came across an article about asking your conversation partner engaging questions to get to know them better
If a conversation partner would start bombing me with these I'd get pretty freaked out.
 
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  1. Which house would you belong to in Hogwarts? Alternative: What fictional group would you most likely fit in? vulcan (star trek)
  2. What emotion do you experience the most? loneliness
  3. Who inspires you? musicians
  4. If you were to open a bar, what would you name it? "golden carrot" cause it would be a fresh vegetable & fruit juice bar
  5. Would you rather be stuck in traffic for three hours each day, or never be able to eat out or get take-out again? never eat out again
  6. If you were to go to jail, what would it be for? i am with @Tragedy here ^^ - Being with people that did something illegal
  7. If you could choose to die right now, would you? yes
  8. Which one is harder to give up: coffee or alcohol? alcohol - i don't drink it anyways cause it gives me mainly headaches
  9. Have you ever shoplifted? If yes, what did you take? once as a teenager - not on purpose. i noticed when i left the shop that i forgot the can of soda in my pocket.
  10. What are the three things you would bring with you to a deserted island? a bed with a mosquito net, shotgun to kill myself when it's time, a container of drugs to entertain myself
  11. What is one childhood superstition or fear you've had/never told anyone? can't think of one
  12. What (secret) obsession do you have? no idea
  13. If you could do only one thing for the rest of your life, what would it be? sleeping
  14. What makes you feel loved? when i feel vulnerable and i am held in the arms of the woman i love
  15. What do you lie most about? when my mother asks me about news of my life and i pretty much every time say "nothing"
  16. What's the silliest thing that you've ever gotten upset about? on a bad day pretty much everything. like that a few pieces of tea fall to the side and not all into the tea filter. or when my laptop fails to go to sleep mode and i have to shut it down.
  17. If you had to spend 10,000 bucks today, how would you spend it? bitcoins and hope for the hype to continue ^^
  18. What's your favorite music video? mhm - too many which come to my mind - maybe "rammstein - keine lust"
  19. Who's your least favorite celebrity? most politicians in general
  20. If you could re-do one day in your life, what would it be and why? one evening when i was DJing and mainly playing tunes for a few friends and they did dance their asses of on the dancefloor. that was one of the most uniting feelings i ever had.
 
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Ooooh, this is fun...

Which house would you belong to in Hogwarts? Alternative: What fictional group would you most likely fit in?
While I believe I have no qualities for any of the houses, there’s a popular opinion that people like me ended up in Hufflepuff, so Hufflepuff it is.

What emotion do you experience the most?
Is "exhausted" an emotion? If yes it’s definitely it.

Who inspires you?
Something tells me we suicide forum folks are not the most inspired bunch. Nobody, like most of us.

If you were to open a bar, what would you name it?
“Amnesia”.

Would you rather be stuck in traffic for three hours each day, or never be able to eat out or get take-out again?
I think I’d prefer to be stuck in traffic, although I have no idea what I would be leaving my apartment for every single day.

If you were to go to jail, what would it be for?
As my recent experience taught me, doing what my boss tells me to do, apparently.

If you could choose to die right now, would you?
Not if I can choose to die like a week later, so I can at least get around to cleaning my apartment, but otherwise yes.

Which one is harder to give up: coffee or alcohol?
For me? I kind of graduated from coffee to energy drinks, so I don’t know if it counts as giving up coffee. I don’t think I’d ever be motivated to give up either one of these things.

Have you ever shoplifted? If yes, what did you take?
Yes, I stole food from shops when I was a kid.

What are the three things you would bring with you to a deserted island?
A nice book to read before I go, a loaded gun and a bottle of good liquor.

What is one childhood superstition or fear you've had/never told anyone?
I was afraid of using the gas stove after firemen visited us at school and showed us pictures of victims of explosions. They just wanted us not to play with the stove, but terrified me well enough to keep me from using it at all until I was about 13.

What (secret) obsession do you have?
Writing. I really want to finish a novel before I go, even though I am fairly sure no one would be interested in reading it even if I was willing to share it with the world.

If you could do only one thing for the rest of your life, what would it be?
See above. Although eating is a strong contender for this spot, if it was physically possible to just graze non-stop and not feel sick, I probably would.

What makes you feel loved?
Having someone to talk to who actually understands. I really miss that.

What do you lie most about?
My mental health issues. Namely explaining away anxiety attacks, dissociation etc. with being tired, physical health, or other excuse-of-the-week.

What's the silliest thing that you've ever gotten upset about?
Probably that time I broke down crying over the shop not having energy drinks. It wasn’t the only reason for me to be upset at the moment, but it just pushed me over the edge.

If you had to spend 10,000 bucks today, how would you spend it?
I suppose no investments are allowed, so a party at a strip club then. Yeah, I’m a bad person.

What's your favorite music video?
Eh, I don’t know, guess I’m not that into music videos.

Who's your least favorite celebrity?
I don’t think I have one, I have a few celebrities I like and I just don’t care about the rest.

If you could re-do one day in your life, what would it be and why?
Oh my…I would re-do the day I ruined my most important friendship and try to save it instead. Because that friendship was the most love and happiness I ever had in my life.
 
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  1. Which house would you belong to in Hogwarts? Alternative: What fictional group would you most likely fit in? Either Slytherin or Ravenclaw
  2. What emotion do you experience the most? idk depression?
  3. Who inspires you? nobody really, but i guess RBG is cool...
  4. If you were to open a bar, what would you name it? House of Misery
  5. Would you rather be stuck in traffic for three hours each day, or never be able to eat out or get take-out again? Probably take-out because I grew up too poor for takeout so I know I can live without it
  6. If you were to go to jail, what would it be for? Taking a weapon somewhere it's not allowed (the weapon being the razor blade I keep on me always)
  7. If you could choose to die right now, would you? If it was quick and painless, absolutely yes. I'm so over this shit. Three failed attempts and I'm still here because I'm too much of a pussy to do it right.
  8. Which one is harder to give up: coffee or alcohol? I don't really use either regularly but I would say alcohol for social reasons
  9. Have you ever shoplifted? If yes, what did you take? Nope
  10. What are the three things you would bring with you to a deserted island? Razor blade, longest book I could find and some sort of firestarter
  11. What is one childhood superstition or fear you've had/never told anyone? looking out the window at night and expecting a face to be looking back
  12. What (secret) obsession do you have? cutting
  13. If you could do only one thing for the rest of your life, what would it be? sleep
  14. What makes you feel loved? having someone really seem to care about me on more than just a superficial level
  15. What do you lie most about? being suicidial
  16. What's the silliest thing that you've ever gotten upset about? Not liking the smell of the soap when I was in the hospital
  17. If you had to spend 10,000 bucks today, how would you spend it? realistically, college tuition. If anything were possible? International vacation
  18. What's your favorite music video? i don't really watch music videos very often
  19. Who's your least favorite celebrity? I don't really have one
  20. If you could re-do one day in your life, what would it be and why? The day I started cutting, I could've saved myself a lot of problems
 
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stygal said:
So I came across an article about asking your conversation partner engaging questions to get to know them better
... I know that something similar has already been done here but since there are thousands of different questions and topics I thought some of you would like to answer those ones:
  1. Which house would you belong to in Hogwarts? Alternative: What fictional group would you most likely fit in?
  2. What emotion do you experience the most?
  3. Who inspires you?
  4. If you were to open a bar, what would you name it?
  5. Would you rather be stuck in traffic for three hours each day, or never be able to eat out or get take-out again?
  6. If you were to go to jail, what would it be for?
  7. If you could choose to die right now, would you?
  8. Which one is harder to give up: coffee or alcohol?
  9. Have you ever shoplifted? If yes, what did you take?
  10. What are the three things you would bring with you to a deserted island?
  11. What is one childhood superstition or fear you've had/never told anyone?
  12. What (secret) obsession do you have?
  13. If you could do only one thing for the rest of your life, what would it be?
  14. What makes you feel loved?
  15. What do you lie most about?
  16. What's the silliest thing that you've ever gotten upset about?
  17. If you had to spend 10,000 bucks today, how would you spend it?
  18. What's your favorite music video?
  19. Who's your least favorite celebrity?
  20. If you could re-do one day in your life, what would it be and why?
Your turn! You tell us :)
 
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