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Trashcan

Trashcan

Trash
Aug 31, 2018
1,234
I'm pro choice about suicide but I always get sad when someone on here ctb. I want them to be in peace and away from whatever drove them to that point. But it just is sad that people are at such a low point that death seems like the only solution... and it can be. Hopefully people take a good, long look at why people ctb and the causes will be changed. We only treat the symptoms of it. The underlying conditions that is causing these suicide rates to go up needs to be looked at. Once again, I am not pro-life, I really am not. I just wish that living conditions were more bearable to people and we could actually enjoy life. I wish that suicide was not the only option for some people.
 
SnowyDreams

SnowyDreams

Member
Aug 25, 2018
79
I feel you in this. Someone I love and admire a lot had to do it, too. I just wish they had other options. Maybe some help. It's hard to accept it. Maybe because we're selfish in the end. And we want the ones we care about to be ok. But if they couldn't and had to ctb, now at least they're not suffering anymore. I hate to think they went through such an amount of pain. I can understand how horrible it is because I'm going through something very similar and it's an ongoing nightmare. It hurts to know that they're gone. That I will never see them again. I miss them. But at least they're not in pain anymore. This applies to everyone who's suffering, really. I hope everyone can find rest and peace no matter what they do. Sometimes the only choice is to say goodbye and leave for good.
 
Trashcan

Trashcan

Trash
Aug 31, 2018
1,234
I feel you in this. Someone I love and admire a lot had to do it, too. I just wish they had other options. Maybe some help. It's hard to accept it. Maybe because we're selfish in the end. And we want the ones we care about to be ok. But if they couldn't and had to ctb, now at least they're not suffering anymore. I hate to think they went through such an amount of pain. I can understand how horrible it is because I'm going through something very similar and it's an ongoing nightmare. It hurts to know that they're gone. That I will never see them again. I miss them. But at least they're not in pain anymore. This applies to everyone who's suffering, really. I hope everyone can find rest and peace no matter what they do. Sometimes the only choice is to say goodbye and leave for good.

Whole-heartedly agreed. Even though I have a sense of sadness about it, the more important thing is that they’re in peace.
 
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Ssname

Experienced
Jun 30, 2018
268
I agree with you. It is sad. To an extent I am pro life but I think I have a different definition to most people (so hold on the flaming and banning haha). I think life is good or rather it can be so I would much rather everyone lived a happy life and a site like this didn't exist because there was no demand for it. It is sad when people choose to stop living.

Ultimately though that isn't reality and I am absolutely pro choice. It's sad when people I have talked to on here ctb like zanexx and comatose11 but I hope they are at peace now.

This site has been an amazing find for me and I am extremely grateful of a place where we can actually talk openly without being judged to considered "a danger to ourselves". I wish it were possible to have honest conversations irl but it just isn't.
 
M

Miss clefable

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Aug 23, 2018
1,589
Yeah every time it’s strange talking to people then you find out the next they ctb it’s like :( but then I feel happy for them because now they don’t have to suffer in this diabolical world and the so called game of life
 
Tiburcio

Tiburcio

Voluntary deletion.
May 9, 2018
1,573
Being objective I shouldn't, but I thought somebody I talked here died and I cried strongly...


When somebody here kills himself, even if I didn't talked too much I feel it like a loss. I miss certain users even if I think this is what they wanted and the best for them but it's life I guess...
 
SamK

SamK

Cloud Surfing
Aug 21, 2018
280
feeling this 100%.

Mental illness aside..
where's the support for people surviving
x losses of children
x domestic violence
x those living in severe pain daily, requiring around the clock morphine
x BPD patients suicide rate is high because mental health professionals give up on them
x housing for the homeless

improvements needed all around

And one more thing, even here in the UK, if you have a mental illness, finding a crisis hospital bed, (say you did want help) is now near impossible as beds are full everywhere and a&e staff brush it off too often. Crisis teams tell you to take a hot bath and read a book .. a lot needs to change
 
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RottingFlowerBrains

RottingFlowerBrains

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Sep 10, 2018
193
I was waiting for comatose to get unbanned damn