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What's your sex drive like?


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BlackDragonof1989

BlackDragonof1989

Mage
Jul 12, 2018
526
Not as high lately, though it's partly because I'm getting older I think, going through a stressful falling out, and realizing I get off most with dominant, even mentally abusive types who make it a challenge. I don't know why, I mean that gets stressful and non-rewarding past a point too, and currently I'm very much the dominant one in my current relationship, but it's more of a love than lust thing for a change I think? I don't know, very confusing for me.
 
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mwu14

Member
Apr 21, 2018
53
Asexual with unwanted sex drive that makes me feel like I'm possessed.

One of many reasons for ending my life, knowing there's no treatment for it other than having doctors tell you to masturbate. Well, yeah, I'm looking to eliminate the drive so I don't have to masturbate.

I also notice my body's need to orgasm increases after suicide attempts.
 
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Brokenanddeadinside

Brokenanddeadinside

Specialist
Aug 8, 2018
395
Sometimes though it drives me crazy when my sex drive is really high. I usually have a very high sex drive but when I am hypomanic I become hypersexual and its an excessive amount one time it was 8 times in one day which only happened once thankfully.
 
skyofAuroras

skyofAuroras

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Apr 10, 2018
136
It's funny, durring most of my teen years I had a super low sex drive (masturbated like twice a month). Lately it's been pretty high. Luckily not to the point where it's annoying.
 
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I want to end it

Arcanist
Apr 29, 2018
423
I voted neutral and I'm male. I learned over the years to "lower" my drive because no girl has ever liked me, so what's the point of wanting sex? It's just an unnecessary burden to have if you can never have it with anyone. It's also low due to my general mood.

Very high, and it's really annoying :'(
It's funny, durring most of my teen years I had a super low sex drive (masturbated like twice a month). Lately it's been pretty high. Luckily not to the point where it's annoying.
When girls say their drive is very high, how does that compare to a typical male drive? Presumably you would be quite picky with who you have sex with, even though your drive is very high?
 
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here4now

here4now

The ride never ends!
Jun 13, 2018
21
I flick the bean multiple times a day but I'm not interested in having sex. Being intimate with someone makes me very uncomfortable.
 
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strained03

strained03

Member
Aug 1, 2018
66
Seeing the poll... I think you could dissociate self pleasure from intercourse. People can masturbate a few times a day but not feel ready to do it with someone, or just be introvert, or have some trauma etc.

Kind regards and no offense at all,
S.
 
thetwilightzone

thetwilightzone

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Jul 14, 2018
307
Believe it or not, I only successfuly masturbated (orgasmed and ejaculated) two years ago when I was 18. Up until then, I simply didn't know how to.

What changed was that I had access to female boots and high heels and I have an incredible fetish for these. I got so aroused that I just took them silently from the floor, rubbed my penis on them and ejaculated.
 
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mwu14

Member
Apr 21, 2018
53
"Seeing the poll... I think you could dissociate self pleasure from intercourse."

Have already done that.

"People can masturbate a few times a day"

Would rather not have to at all.

"but not feel ready to do it with someone"

Have experience, so know it isn't for me.

"or just be introvert"

This, along with genuinely being asexual. Not attracted to most women, don't look at porn or think about women, etc.

As men, our sex drives are generally out of control. I like being a guy. I just don't like having any sex drive.

The only available treatments to significantly reduce sex drive have way too many potential side-effects to make it worth trying.
 
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Tiburcio

Tiburcio

Voluntary deletion.
May 9, 2018
1,573
My sex drive is the only thing who gives me an escape. After a shitty day, I aliviate myself. That's the only reason why I'm not mad and locked in some dark madhouse yet.
 
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Empty Smile

Empty Smile

The final Bell has rung. Goodbye to all.
Jul 13, 2018
1,786
I pretty much have no interest in sex. I can't even get excited enough to polish the ol poodle.....
 
hopeis5427

hopeis5427

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Aug 13, 2018
93
Id say its almost high,but my sex drive has lowered the past couple of months which is good.My sex drive is more of a impulsion then it is a turn on,its like i have to masturbate even when i dont feel turned on,but i have noticed that i feel less lonely everytime i masturbate so i guess thats why