- May 14, 2018
I’m already deciding it. There is no way I’m going through the pain of rejection again it will be enough to make me do it.
Rayzieka said:Most likely the same thing here.
I had decided not to get involved but someone just popped into my life and I'm paranoid.
I'm stuck on not wanting to ruin it and letting it happen or ruining it to stay around longer.
I mean I feel like if I ruin it before I'm in love i'll be fine but once I'm in too deep Im done for if they decide to leave.Journeytoletgo said:I agree. Id rather stay away from people as I don’t want them involved with me as I see myself as having too many problems. It’s why I always ruin my chances.
Are you stating if you ruin it you will stick around living more although you choose to ruin it? I’m not understanding the last part there lol
Rayzieka said:I mean I feel like if I ruin it before I'm in love i'll be fine but once I'm in too deep Im done for if they decide to leave.
I already feel the fear though so its probably too late.
Wish I was strong enough to keep myself away from romantic feelings.Journeytoletgo said:true it becomes to painful once one is connected and things don’t work out for the best. We can expect so much once we become attached and then if things don’t work out we are devastated.
Rayzieka said:Wish I was strong enough to keep myself away from romantic feelings.
I was obsessed with my best friend for years knowing it wouldn't go anywhere and I finally move on and someone else comes along and shoves gum in the hole in my chest lol.
What a nightmare.
He kinda lead me on but the one day turned and said ' i cant use you like this ' and confirmed he's not interested.Journeytoletgo said:That’s usually what happens someone comes around when you least expect it. I’d rather just be friends with guys at this point as none of them see me romantically I’m just not pretty enough lol.
what was that like ? Your friend sounds mean to toy your emotions, although I’d rather have that bond than a romantic sexual relationship since it never happens for me anyway. Guys want the prettiest girls for dates and average for sex. Lol
Rayzieka said:He kinda lead me on but the one day turned and said ' i cant use you like this ' and confirmed he's not interested.
Still love him but not like that. Now it just hurts he's too busy with his own problems to hear mine and I don't wanna make things difficult. I wouldn't worry about the pretty part though- it just takes the right person cause even models are ugly to some guys.
Same here romantic rejection is a very painful experience. It’s why I avoid dating anyway since I don’t have the slightest chance anyway.Dr Iron Arc said:That’s what I said before the last time I was romantically rejected lo and behold, my initial plans are fully underway.
I think if somehow I was able to fall in love again and got rejected again I would CTB instantly, plans be damned.