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Hirokami

Hirokami

What if it were all just a dream?
Feb 21, 2021
275
SH isn't any worse than drinking as a coping method yet the latter is more acceptable, even if it's done excessively. You do the former even once and everyone thinks you're bonkers.
 
AverageFanEnjoyer

AverageFanEnjoyer

The Hated One
Sep 26, 2021
1,939
There's absolutely no entitlement in wanting to be loved, cared for and noticed. We, as humans, desire these things naturally because we have been made to interact and belong somewhere. We are social beings. So those idiots who keep saying "YoURe nOT eNtItLeD tO..." can go suck a dick.
 
Nessie

Nessie

Cynical
Aug 23, 2020
1,262
There's absolutely no entitlement in wanting to be loved, cared for and noticed. We, as humans, desire these things naturally because we have been made to interact and belong somewhere. We are social beings. So those idiots who keep saying "YoURe nOT eNtItLeD tO..." can go suck a dick.
Sure, there is nothing wrong with wanting love. In fact, I don't think that there is anything wrong with wanting anything, even if it's to be an overlord of the universe and have everyone kneel when you enter the room, or to lock your asshole neighbour in the basement and do unspeakable things to them - desires are not evil, even the "bad ones" are harmless as long as you know better than to act on them. But entitlement is a whole different can of worms. Entitlement is an idea that the world owes you the thing you want simply because you want it. And it's especially problematic when it comes to love and affection, because there are other people with their own agency involved. Wanting someone to notice you, care about you and love you is one thing, demanding that they do it simply because you want it and demonizing them for not doing is a very different and very problematic thing. Anyone can want anything, but we all just have to accept the fact we can't always get what we want, and usually it's not because we're unfairly mistreated by the entire Universe, it's just bad luck and really noone's fault.
That's just my (probably unpopular) opinion though. Not trying to start an argument or say that anyone who disagrees is wrong, we're all entitled to our own opinions. Love and peace folks, I'm the person that is advised to go suck a dick a lot anyways :))
 
AverageFanEnjoyer

AverageFanEnjoyer

The Hated One
Sep 26, 2021
1,939
Sure, there is nothing wrong with wanting love. In fact, I don't think that there is anything wrong with wanting anything, even if it's to be an overlord of the universe and have everyone kneel when you enter the room, or to lock your asshole neighbour in the basement and do unspeakable things to them - desires are not evil, even the "bad ones" are harmless as long as you know better than to act on them. But entitlement is a whole different can of worms. Entitlement is an idea that the world owes you the thing you want simply because you want it. And it's especially problematic when it comes to love and affection, because there are other people with their own agency involved. Wanting someone to notice you, care about you and love you is one thing, demanding that they do it simply because you want it and demonizing them for not doing is a very different and very problematic thing. Anyone can want anything, but we all just have to accept the fact we can't always get what we want, and usually it's not because we're unfairly mistreated by the entire Universe, it's just bad luck and really noone's fault.
That's just my (probably unpopular) opinion though. Not trying to start an argument or say that anyone who disagrees is wrong, we're all entitled to our own opinions. Love and peace folks, I'm the person that is advised to go suck a dick a lot anyways :))
My problem here is with people (who mostly are the ones who have great lives and are loved) who use this expression "you're not entitled to..." as a way to make someone shut up, a way to shutdown the thoughts and feelings of those who are socially unacceptable. And it's not only about love here, but about all things in general. If you're somehow different in any department and express your suffering, there will always be one who will say "you're not entitled to" to dismiss your problem and make you feel worse. It's happened to me on Reddit a while ago and it really affected me.

But, going back to the topic of love, it's not only a want, but also a NEED. I mean come on, it's listed even on Maslow's Pyramid of needs. Telling someone that they're not entitled to love is as if you're telling them they're not entitled to food or water.

And the last part, I've said not out of rudeness, but because I was fed up. I regret it ngl but can't edit my comment anymore.
 
Nessie

Nessie

Cynical
Aug 23, 2020
1,262
And the last part, I've said not out of rudeness, but because I was fed up. I regret it ngl but can't edit my comment anymore.
Eh, that wasn't really rude, that was just you venting, perfectly valid.
My problem here is with people (who mostly are the ones who have great lives and are loved) who use this expression "you're not entitled to..." as a way to make someone shut up, a way to shutdown the thoughts and feelings of those who are socially unacceptable. And it's not only about love here, but about all things in general. If you're somehow different in any department and express your suffering, there will always be one who will say "you're not entitled to" to dismiss your problem and make you feel worse. It's happened to me on Reddit a while ago and it really affected me.

But, going back to the topic of love, it's not only a want, but also a NEED. I mean come on, it's listed even on Maslow's Pyramid of needs. Telling someone that they're not entitled to love is as if you're telling them they're not entitled to food or water.
What can I say...not all spaces are good spaces for venting and finding compassion. Whatever dark corner of Reddit this whole thing happened at, it probably was not a very compassionate space. Sorry this happened.
 
DeutscheKartoffel

DeutscheKartoffel

Ich wünschte ich wäre eine deutsche Kartoffel.
Dec 12, 2021
120
People self-censor to protect themselves,
The dumb ones are in jail getting tortured without achieving anything effective,
smart ones go into exile without having their safety jeopardised.

Some portion of those committed suicide, in the most extreme cases but life is really “just a game” if you don’t get out of what you cannot accept.
 
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Manaaja

Manaaja

euROPE
Sep 10, 2018
910
I have always wanted to eat at a michelin star restaurant but at the same time, I'd probably have to wait for a long time before getting the food (either the restaurant was full so it took time to make the food, or the waiting times for the restaurant would be really long, I've heard they were three months for one restaurant) and the portion would be t-i-n-y.

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And anyone would be an idiot to pay 100 dollars for this. It's literally a rotten old leaf. Yes, that's a fusion between a carrot and a sausage of all things, proving that evolution is real, and different species can make babies together.
 
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freemindnsoul

freemindnsoul

Wizard
Sep 29, 2021
649
I have always wanted to eat at a michelin star restaurant but at the same time, I'd probably have to wait for a long time before getting the food (either the restaurant was full so it took time to make the food, or the waiting times for the restaurant would be really long, I've heard they were three months for one restaurant) and the portion would be t-i-n-y.

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And anyone would be an idiot to pay 100 dollars for this. It's literally a rotten old leaf. Yes, that's a fusion between a carrot and a sausage of all things, proving that evolution is real, and different species can make babies together.
I wouldn't eat this for free
 
not-2-b-the-answer

not-2-b-the-answer

Illuminated
Mar 23, 2018
3,099
I have always wanted to eat at a michelin star restaurant but at the same time, I'd probably have to wait for a long time before getting the food (either the restaurant was full so it took time to make the food, or the waiting times for the restaurant would be really long, I've heard they were three months for one restaurant) and the portion would be t-i-n-y.

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And anyone would be an idiot to pay 100 dollars for this. It's literally a rotten old leaf. Yes, that's a fusion between a carrot and a sausage of all things, proving that evolution is real, and different species can make babies together.
Ewwww!!!! 🤮 100 bucks would buy me a lot of pizza and burgers. 😍
 
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Angi

Member
Jan 4, 2022
30
There should be more mathematics classes in school. The world would be a better place if more people could do their own math, thus make their own informed decisions.
 
DeutscheKartoffel

DeutscheKartoffel

Ich wünschte ich wäre eine deutsche Kartoffel.
Dec 12, 2021
120
suicide can be prevented most effectively,
when the individual’s “problem” is resolved at its very root.

“Do something about it”.
 
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Green Destiny

Green Destiny

Life isn't worth the trouble.
Nov 16, 2019
645
Voting in the U.S. isn't worth the effort.
In this day and age it's a crapshoot voting in the U.S because both parties don't give 2 fucks about the people they "Represent"
 
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leavinghope

Member
Jul 18, 2018
31
Voting in the U.S. isn't worth the effort.
Is voting anywhere worth the effort? I know the whole "if no one votes, a candidate can just vote for himself and win" argument but c'mon. Value of a single vote is inversely proportional to the total number of votes received. When you already know that a significant portion of the population will be voting, what's the point? Why bother travelling a few kms and waiting in a line or even registering/logging on a website for that matter? It's basically a total waste of time.
 
mixolydian

mixolydian

broken body, broken mind
Aug 2, 2020
426
I don't want to be surrounded by people who aren't trying.
 
KadathianStr1d3r

KadathianStr1d3r

Shattered Mannequin
Nov 21, 2018
239
Hey thought it might be interesting to hear everyone’s unpopular opinions.

I’ll start:

I don’t like anime or manga

pls don’t hate me...haha
NakeyJakey is not funny. Most humor on youtube sucks dick. I hate the death of edgy humor and I miss Filthy Frank. Let's Go Brandon is not funny or clever at all, in fact it's downright pathetic, Joe Biden only said to mock the right! I really don't like search algorithms, just quit fucking up my random shitposting fest Facebook, Youtube, Instagram and every single social media app ever made! Fuck, I don't care about some lame ass meme about the kuwait war just because I saw the one about the Cannibals in China fucking up the rebellion army! Just let me see some dank memes and for god sakes give me back my old edgy humor please!
 
TriggerHappy

TriggerHappy

In the kingdom of th blind; the one-eyed are kings
Jan 24, 2021
1,273
Is there something wrong with me?
So; when I Ctb I used to want a quiet, peacefull ritualistic shove-off into the afterlife...
But lately (& those that know & love me will understand) I've been wanting to kinda cause a major blast (no pun intended) when I go. I want to blow the whole hotel I'm staying in; skyhigh. Take as many fuckers as I can with me. No one is innocent...
I've shared my fucked up childhood and my serial killer tendencies as well as my s&m blood fetishism and am dealing with them... my relationship to a lover & my addiction has spiralled out of control & maybe this is a need for communicating my hurt I don't know :: I'm shooting speedballs (with crystal meth as a cocktail and khat) and am told (by experienced, loving friends on this site) that my destructive, unfeeling tendencies may be as a result of this.
honestly...this is just an urge. But I'm reading Anarchists Cookbook as a guide just in case...
I am struggling to feel anything anymore. It's awful.

Pls advise.
 
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littlelungs

littlelungs

Arcanist
Oct 21, 2018
494
Ice cubes have no place in drinks unless you're nauseous, going on a hike in the summer or pouring yourself some hard alcohol on the rocks. Otherwise, they ruin the flavour of the drink. In any case, though, they get in the fuckin' way.
 
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Circles

Circles

There's a difference between existing and living.
Sep 3, 2018
1,723
Twitter posts should not even be posted as memes. It’s very low effort.

Green beens are the worst
Hey now take that back. All you got to do is put the green beans in cooking bowl to put on top of a stove, find a hot sauce you like and put a lot of that hot sauce in the green beans until the liquid is reddish and put some spices like salt/pepper. I also put put diced tomatoes in mine but it’s whatever and then let it simmer medium-heat for about 20 minutes and presto you got some good fucking green beans bro.
 
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Crocodiledundee

Member
Jan 9, 2022
18
I hate the smell and taste of coffee. Coffee anything is vile.
Lol coffee is the stuff of legends that brings people together 😉
Natural is just better

Tatoos, piercings, nail polish, fake/boobs/lips/whatev, makeup, lipstick etc. are all disgusting and almost make me want to throw up
My ex accused me of trying to make her ugly by not encouraging her to do all these things 😭
 
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TournelHenry

TournelHenry

Member
Jan 9, 2021
5
Due to recent trends in politics and society, I'm slowly turning into a knee-jerk misogynist.
I think we should go back to restricting some of what females are allowed to do.

I'll stop there before I get banned for hate speech LOL
 
Kalebri

Kalebri

Slave
Dec 18, 2021
24
Due to recent trends in politics and society, I'm slowly turning into a knee-jerk misogynist.
I think we should go back to restricting some of what females are allowed to do.

I'll stop there before I get banned for hate speech LOL
The problem is not women, but the whole financial system that enslave us with debt. Blame the elite group who owns the private banks, the central banks of every nation and the world financial pyramid scheme.
 
DeutscheKartoffel

DeutscheKartoffel

Ich wünschte ich wäre eine deutsche Kartoffel.
Dec 12, 2021
120
Unpopular opinion:
Any religion that interprets god as an image, is basically a cult.
 
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