LastLoveLetter

LastLoveLetter

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Mar 28, 2021
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Unfortunately, I can't access their profile and I don't know if it would be okay with them if their final post was published... Would someone please summarize it or PM it to me?

I see. Their profile publicity must be restricted. In summary, they felt the forum had changed a lot, were no longer comforted by the site and felt worse being on here.
 
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http-410

nowhere
Sep 12, 2020
810
Thanks for the explanation.

Especially with users who have been here for a long time, it hits me hard when they leave. But their decision is to be respected and in the end it is logical and healthy to stay away from something you are no longer comfortable with. I wish them all the best.
 
LastLoveLetter

LastLoveLetter

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Mar 28, 2021
547
So, if I press the self-ban button, it will log me out, and I have to stay away for at least three days otherwise it won't ban me?

If I want to return after being self-banned for let's say two weeks, can I unban myself or do I need to contact the mods?

Thanks in advance!

Basically, when you self-ban, yes this results in being logged out. If you log back in within 3 days (I recall that my account was deactivated after exactly 72 hours when I disabled it), you will be prompted to reactivate your account in order to use any of the forum features, including browsing, checking notifications and reading messages.

Your account is completely unusable unless you change your mind. If you decide to keep your account within that 3 day period, you won't be banned and would have to restart the process all over again if you still decide you want to disable your account in future.

After your account has been disabled, the only way of getting your account back is by submitting a ticket and/or using the Contact us link at the bottom of the homepage. A senior moderator or admin would manually reinstate your account.
 
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Broken Blue

Broken Blue

Member
Oct 14, 2018
15
Can anyone confirm what happened to @TheNorthernSilence ? He was my good friend since we both landed here in 2018, the last contact I had was 8 weeks ago, around the same time of his last activity here. It would help me know if he's gone and at peace. If you have any info please reply or dm. Thanks
 
Manaaja

Manaaja

euROPE
Sep 10, 2018
1,390
Can anyone confirm what happened to @TheNorthernSilence ? He was my good friend since we both landed here in 2018, the last contact I had was 8 weeks ago, around the same time of his last activity here. It would help me know if he's gone and at peace. If you have any info please reply or dm. Thanks
I'd like to know too. Is Northern the person whose discord name starts with w? If so, we last spoke on 16.04.22, wished each other happy Eastern.

Tbh, I'm always confusing who is who when everyone has discord names that are vastly different from their SS names. Well, I have too, but everyone knows I love dogs.

Forgot to add, thanks for the explanation! Really useful information! I've thought about leaving so much. @LastLoveLetter
 
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Shu

As above, So Below.
Jan 21, 2022
1,957
Unfortunately, I can't access their profile and I don't know if it would be okay with them if their final post was published here... Would someone please summarize it or PM it to me?
In order to view post hover over the user's name and click the number under "Messages"
 
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Broken Blue

Broken Blue

Member
Oct 14, 2018
15
I'd like to know too. Is Northern the person whose discord name starts with w? If so, we last spoke on 16.04.22, wished each other happy Eastern.

Tbh, I'm always confusing who is who when everyone has discord names that are vastly different from their SS names. Well, I have too, but everyone knows I love dogs.

Forgot to add, thanks for the explanation! Really useful information! I've thought about leaving so much. @LastLoveLetter
Yeah his discord name starts with 'w' and that's close to the date we last spoke too. If he's gone I'm not surprised at the timing but where SS was one of his only outlets while he struggled in life, I was a bit surprised to see no final message from him here. Maybe in the end the final step had to be more impulse

If anyone knows more re @TheNorthernSilence please msg, no matter how far down the line. I think likely he's gone but I still worry not knowing for sure
 
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Cathy Ames

Hopeless
Mar 11, 2022
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Myforevercharlie

Myforevercharlie

Enlightened
Feb 13, 2020
1,363
Can anyone confirm what happened to @TheNorthernSilence ? He was my good friend since we both landed here in 2018, the last contact I had was 8 weeks ago, around the same time of his last activity here. It would help me know if he's gone and at peace. If you have any info please reply or dm. Thanks
Pm me..
 
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waitingforrest

Wizard
Dec 27, 2021
692
In case anyone would wonder, I'm deleting my account. It was real y'all but whenever I don't come here for a few days I feel like I've come out from under a dark cloud. Best wishes to you.
Best of luck out there. I hope you will be able to do all the things you want, experience all the tiny things that are still suprisingly beautiful in the world. No matter the weather, I wish you a future where rainy clouds are just a afterthought.
 
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picklemick

Member
Jun 28, 2022
69
Have been wondering how a forum about suicide works. Considering the only people that can actively participate haven't actually succeeded yet. How do you know who's gone and who moved on with their lives
 
9BBN

9BBN

Heaven, send Hell away
Mar 29, 2021
307
Have been wondering how a forum about suicide works. Considering the only people that can actively participate haven't actually succeeded yet. How do you know who's gone and who moved on with their lives
We don't know. And you don't have to plan to kill yourself to be suicidal. Some of us want to die, some of us don't, some of us are unsure, and some of us are in waiting, either for a method to be viable or for external obligations to abate.