not-2-b-the-answer

not-2-b-the-answer

Angelic
Mar 23, 2018
4,200
I don't know if this has been asked before.... maybe.
Can banned members still see their pm's?
 
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Life_and_Death

Life_and_Death

typically not in the mental frame to converse..
Jul 1, 2020
5,254
No, I wouldn't think so. I don't think they're able to log in at all.
could be wrong or maybe it was circumstances. i think youre right about the not logging on part but i think i remember someone whos name was crossed out that could, but like i said it could have been circumstances. it was a couple years ago and im not even sure how i got that info.
 
not-2-b-the-answer

not-2-b-the-answer

Angelic
Mar 23, 2018
4,200
No, I wouldn't think so. I don't think they're able to log in at all.
could be wrong or maybe it was circumstances. i think youre right about the not logging on part but i think i remember someone whos name was crossed out that could, but like i said it could have been circumstances. it was a couple years ago and im not even sure how i got that info.
Thanks for the info.
I know I've seen members with names crossed out still on here before, maybe that was family logging in after a member has passed.
 
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Smart No More

Visionary
May 5, 2021
2,419
Thanks for the info.
I know I've seen members with names crossed out still on here before, maybe that was family logging in after a member has passed.
I think that's usually people who close their accounts/put them on private and log out. You can do it in the settings but it still allows you to log back into your account. People can put themselves on a kind of time out.
 
Lost in a Dream

Lost in a Dream

Enlightened
Feb 22, 2020
1,108
I think that's usually people who close their accounts/put them on private and log out. You can do it in the settings but it still allows you to log back into your account. People can put themselves on a kind of time out.

So that's how it works. I've always wondered about that, but it's been a while since I've seen someone with a crossed out name come back.
 
Trilucid

Trilucid

Member
May 25, 2022
59
Not really here to look or ask for others at the moment.
But it does hurt like hell knowing how many have gone and passed.
Losing their battle once and for all on this cold as ice rock.
It's like that one lame joke nobody forgets...
 
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Interloper

Jul 23, 2021
587
And about @PrincessInWhite? She disappeared all of a sudden and has been some time too.
I wouldn't call it sudden, her condition worsens over time and there's only so much being here can do for her. She is in a lot of our thoughts but yeah.

I'm so desperate for mercy, hugs and being sad for me wont help me.

Lots of coming and going atm. @StarryStarry was briefly back and has gone again. @catflowers has gone.
@starry starry was just @StarryStarry and she had an argument with rain so she was probably banned. (sorry I just saw you did indeed tag her first account)
 
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chocolatebar

chocolatebar

Warlock
Jul 11, 2021
799
I wouldn't call it sudden, her condition worsens over time and there's only so much being here can do for her. She is in a lot of our thoughts but yeah.




@starry starry was just @StarryStarry and she had an argument with rain so she was probably banned.
Sorry for my choice of words. I don't know what she endures and how difficult it is to pass by and talk to so many users
 
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whatevs

whatevs

Mining for copium in the weirdest places.
Jan 15, 2022
2,408
Too many people I wonder about. Been here since May 2020, feels like I’m just watching a time lapse of people in a city. People just come and go.

Tbf why would you extend you stay more than the bare minimum necessary. It makes sense that people leave, or leave here. If you get into the habit of checking out the forum daily like me it just means you're stuck in a personal hell that's not painful enough to push you to suicide but neither to stop thinking about It altogether.
 
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Julgran

Enlightened
Dec 15, 2021
1,220
Tbf why would you extend you stay more than the bare minimum necessary. It makes sense that people leave, or leave here. If you get into the habit of checking out the forum daily like me it just means you're stuck in a personal hell that's not painful enough to push you to suicide but neither to stop thinking about It altogether.

Some of those people may have decided to end their life already, but I believe that you are correct.

However, I also see a stay within this community as beneficial from an easy exit standpoint - meaning that it's beneficial just to have gone through the steps that may be necessary if push comes to shove, and have an easy step-by-step instruction for oneself if life gets too tough - much like preppers who buy a lot of food and other necessities in order to stay alive for long periods if a disaster strikes, but the other way around.

For example, one may not want to buy N or SN, but it's beneficial to know how to tie a proper hanging rope, in case life takes a turn for the worse. You could call it "suicide prepping".
 
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Interloper

Jul 23, 2021
587
Tbf why would you extend you stay more than the bare minimum necessary. It makes sense that people leave, or leave here. If you get into the habit of checking out the forum daily like me it just means you're stuck in a personal hell that's not painful enough to push you to suicide but neither to stop thinking about It altogether.
I also don't think it's unlikely that there have been people who "left" but came back under a different account. Maybe that's just me omega-coping though. But I'd put money on it having happened at least once.
 
Chinaski

Chinaski

Arthur Scargill appreciator
Sep 1, 2018
2,647
I also don't think it's unlikely that there have been people who "left" but came back under a different account. Maybe that's just me omega-coping though. But I'd put money on it having happened at least once.
Yeah, happens all the time, a fair few people have supposedly ctb then logged back in under another account to partake in the ensuing grieving.
Some of those people may have decided to end their life already, but I believe that you are correct.


For example, one may not want to buy N or SN, but it's beneficial to know how to tie a proper hanging rope, in case life takes a turn for the worse. You could call it "suicide prepping".
I suspect people do use this place for that but in reality there's nothing to be learned about the traditional methods here, the "how to hang yourself" thread etc is fundamentally worthless.